Monday, 10 October 2016

Jodoh rahsia Allah


Hello readers.. hope everyone is in good health, happy and content with life. So, I've been thinking a lot lately about 'jodoh' which I thought it would be nice to express it in words, since I'm already 25 years ago (still 24 though sbb blm birthday).=p and it seems like everyone else is either getting engaged, married or having baby. and I'm still here. and my parents are starting to get anxious more than their daughter, wanting to help in any way they can. but, it's ok, let's hope and pray for the best.

Let's begin with this superb advice which I encountered in Twitter;

So much truth and wisdom in this simple advice. Be a woman. Commit to your work, commit to your parents. We need to learn to build ourselves, our career and most importantly our deen. Hoping along the way, our jodoh will come knocking at the door. ehemm.. hahaha.. so, sentiasalah usaha and doa yg baik2. 

On a side note, don't buried ourselves in the past. All the experience are our best teachers to remind us that if we depend on humans, humans can disappoint us, break us apart, make us sad, frustrated and depress. But, if we depend solely on Allah, we will feel contented because even when our plans didn't worked out as what we want it to be, remember that it's Allah plan which is the best plan! for which we might not know the hidden silver lining. Have faith, always berbaik sangka pada Allah. 

"Stop being so hard on yourself. Everything will make sense to you one day. All the pain, hurt, and frustration will become worth it. Remember, everything happens for a particular reason. You are in the exact place you are meant to be right now. So breathe, be patient, and trust the course of your life. Let go of all the expectations you have created in your head. Accept reality as it comes. Accept life for what it is.

Don’t take everything so personally and try to not let others get you down. Most of the time, things have nothing to do with you, and everything to do with the other person. When people hurt you, try and understand their side of the story. Forgive them. Learn from their wrongdoings, and then let it remain in the past. Not everything is always how it appears.

You are so strong my dear. You have been through a lot and come out on the winning end. The world has tried to break you, but you never let it. Thank your past, for it has made you into a better person today.

Not everyone you have meet is meant to stay around forever. People will leave you. On the contrary, you will also leave others. People will disappoint you, and all you can do is learn to appreciate them for what they have taught you. Thank the people who have stayed. Fill the spaces of the ones who have gone.

More importantly, gracefully let go of the things and people that are not meant for you. Accept things the way they are."

Daripada Sheikh Hisham al-Wady. Katanya 3 kunci persediaan yang harus ada bagi bakal pengantin sebelum mendirikan rumah tangga iaitu : (1) Memahami dan mendalami Deen Islam sebagai cara hidup (2) Mengamati dan fahami perbezaan antara lelaki dan perempuan (3) Mengutip kefahaman sedalamnya tentang dunia perkahwinan itu sendiri

Besides, perkahwinan itu alat menujuNya, not the end point. so, niat kne betul. But, I just wonder is there still called cinta selepas bernikah? hmm.. maybe next topic bole karang lbh ckt 

p/s; still waiting.